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Five or six survival tips for the writer/mom “How do you write novels with four kids?” I’ve been asked that question many times at book signings and author events. Sometimes I coyly answer, “When I wrote my first novel, I had only three kids.” The truth is . . . I’ve only seen one entire episode of Survivor. None of Lost, but now that the seasons are out on DVD, maybe I’ll try to watch a couple . . . at midnight . . . or not. My laundry takes three days to do, and then it’s time to start over again. Dinner is, well . . . lacking on most days, but I wasn’t that great of a cook before I became so obsessed. I’ve been known to say, “Pick a can.” But really, I am lucky. I don’t have to write to earn money. So why do I write when my kids are ages two through eleven? Why don’t I use my down time to relax and watch a favorite program or start a new cross-stitch, or even my ultimate escape—read a novel without worrying about research, editing, or my daily writing goal? Well, because I breathe easier when I write. It rounds out my identity even when I’m writing this article and have no idea if it will ever be read by another person. I reap joy and fulfillment . . . and incredible busyness so that by ten in the morning I am left literally breathless with all the things I want to accomplish. One day at a time. That’s survival tip number one. 2. Laptop. When you can afford this luxury (or necessity, says I), invest in a laptop. You can sit on your couch, at your kitchen table, and tap out a few paragraphs here and there. At the same time you are keeping a watchful eye on your two-year old. Note: when she starts to hit the computer screen, it’s time for a break. 3. Wireless internet. Another luxury, but it makes the laptop all that more accessible when you want to check your email every hour or two, or every five minutes . . . just in case that NY agent is just dying to see the remainder of your manuscript and must have it immediately. 4. Carpet Cleaner. What? Just this morning while I was in the shower (not writing, so there is no guilt associated with this mishap) my two year old dumped the orange juice onto the carpet. Now, I can wipe up a mess on the tile faster than the Bounty hunk, but carpet? That could take a good twenty minutes of blotting, rinsing, blotting, spraying, scrubbing, rinsing . . . A carpet cleaner, maybe ten minutes. And it’s really clean. Did I mention I have a two year old? 5. Peanut M&M’s. Now I don’t recommend buying the five pound bags at Costco, but if you are trying to save shopping trips maybe it’s all right. Pick your poison and you’ll be surprised at how a yummy treat can help to motivate you as you write. “If I keep writing, I get to keep snacking.” Or if you are concerned about the calories, don’t read the ingredients. Worse case scenario, pop some butter-free popcorn. I thought about dedicating my next book to Peanut M&M’s . . . I still might . . . if it ever gets published. Oh, I just thought of number six. A good friend. Even better—a good friend with kids who are similar ages to yours. You can pick a day or two during the week and switch. This gives the kids play time and when it’s your friend’s turn . . . sacred writing time. I hope this helps at least one mom in her writing quest. As for me, I’m taking one day at a time and keeping a bag of Peanut M&M’s in my desk drawer. Heather Moore is the mother of four. She is currently working on her fifth historical novel, in between carpool and laundry. She is the author of the Out of Jerusalem series. More information can be found on her website:
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