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Competitive Coffee - Sipping and Social Climbing in the Suburbs If you want to watch the big game, don't follow the team bus to the ball field. Just keep your eyes on those mini vans and SUVs each morning after school drop off, and you can catch caravans of competitors rolling into their favorite stomping grounds. Pop into your local coffee shop, and you'll find teems of suburban moms, driven and ready to rumble. Steer clear as they gear up for their daily grind and a shot for a spot in the hotly contested sport of Competitive Coffee. In most sports the game is clear - or at the very least, you know when you're playing it. With Competitive Coffee, it gets a bit muddy. While an invitation for a cup-a-Joe might seem friendly enough -- trust me -- the challenge of that cup of cappuccino runs dark and deep. That cheery call to meet is merely the coin toss. Sure… that double skinny macchiato latte is delicious… but what makes it taste even sweeter is the unquenchable thirst of social success. You see, in the Starbucks World Cup, it's not really about what you're drinking in that “venti” vessel with the protective cardboard cozy, but rather who's French-manicured fingers have got the strongest grip on the French roast. In this game, there are no scorecards, but everyone knows the score: And all contenders are NOT created equal. Example: Coffee with the annoying new next door neighbor might get you those critical quantity points, but java with the plastic surgeon's pretty wife that ends with an officially scheduled play date virtually guarantees your cup will runneth over. Sack some juicy gossip? You've just earned the extra point! Like many other sports, the refereeing here can sometimes be questionable. While instant replays are not officially condoned, have no doubt that every detail of play will be hashed over, repeatedly, by Monday-morning-mocha quarterbacks. In this game, there are no official rules, but every player seems to know them: You need to invite and be invited to attend as many coffees as possible. Advanced players also master the subtle and subversive strategy of "the bragging blitz". With this indispensable maneuver, you casually mention your past pairings at your current coffee - or the car pool line - and you can virtually double your score. Match-ups have been medaled on this move alone. There are no standardized team uniforms, but tennis skirts or capris are always cute. In this highly caffeinated, cut-throat competition, it's every mom for herself (although “Survivor-like” alliances are often formed to lure new contenders into the quest for the Cup and a major cafe coup d'état). In these games, you've got to keep your schedule percolating: Your date book is your play book. Coffee is one powerful sports drink, and you've got to make every cup count. It's that perfect combination of caffeine and camaraderie that can pump you up with the jittery thrill of victory… or leave you sitting home alone, steeping bitterly in the agony of defeat! It's coffee, tea, or meow… The right coffee partner is worth fighting for and only the strong will survive. She who drinks the most coffee with the most people wins… and that's a fact. At the end of the day, it's all about the buzz: You're either popular, or you're not. As for me, I don't drink coffee. In fact, I've never even tasted it. I'd like to think that is why I often sit warming the bench - a real second string sipper. But put me in, Coach, 'cause I'm pumped and I know the score... So, would you like to meet for coffee sometime? Game on!
Audrey D. Mark is a free spirit and freelance writer without much free time! As a busy mother of three, one of her proudest achievements is NEVER missing her turn as snack mom for any of her kid's soccer games. Well, it sort of happened once - but it really wasn't her fault! She SWEARS that someone else had switched that day with her, although she has nothing in writing to prove it!!! Some of her other credits include her humorous column, "Mark My Words", featured in the Raleigh News and Observer, The NC Journal For Women, and MommiesMagazine.com. She was also selected as a winner in the 2006 "Carolina Woman Magazine" writing contest. Ms. Mark is a member of the National Society of Newspaper Columnists. Web site: www.AudreyDMark.com
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